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This more so applied to his girlfriend and her ongoing complaints about his up and down home installation business, their respective income disparities and her theoretical ideal guy who hadn't seem to be showing up, and all she had was her imperfect friend.
His girlfriend is seemingly a reasonable and logical person as a well liked science teacher, but all of us do get stuck in various ways and often foremost is in our thinking.
While it is in a sense okay to get stuck and it is allowable, it doesn't automatically have to be this way.
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In using the metaphor of the seas, if we are on the uncertain seas that present so many changes faces and landscapes, is it even the friendlier thing to ourselves as friends to ourselves to allow ourselves positions of getting stuck against such changing, vibrant and sometimes uncooperative seas.
Many people really do need a friend, a guide, a coach to help them get unstuck. Yet you can't always have a friend or coach right be you in every situation.
There is also the need to be strong and not go into the shut down mode. And holding on sometimes means globalization of thinking to where this is everything to where it is only something or among many things.
A lot of self help literature talks about affirmations and these affirmations can of course be of your own choosing.
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The expression " don't get stuck on this," can at least be interjected and allowed", and at the least it will give pause .
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